Tuesday, February 14, 2012

A few photo updates...



Outside the fancy homes in the city



Streets of Brazil




Andrew was pretty excited to get his packages...



2/7/2012 Letter

Dear Family and Friends, 

This week was pretty dang cool. We brought 3 girls to church that we've been teaching this past week-including Matteus.  I dont know how to say it in english but they are 'moces'..young women. I don't think that translates correctly. But anyway, sunday was fast and testimony meeting. President has made it a rule that all missionaries need to share a short testimony every testimony meeting which I think is a good idea to keep up the missionary excitment in the ward. Before I went to share my testimony, I said a quick prayer to put the words in my mouth that I needed to say in order to help our investigators and members feel the spirit. I felt that I should share a few verses from mosiah 14 which I had been studying sat morning. I ended up reading a few verses i think it was 5-8ish. I ended up talking about the atonement and a little about the importance of baptism. 

At the end of sacrament meeting a counselor came up to me and said I have somebody who wants to talk to you. He moved to the side and this guy who is looks exactly and acts exactly like the actor in that movie 'the RM' (the friend who is a rebel) asked if he could talk to us in another room privately.  He told us that he has been coming to church off and on for about a year and rejected tons of missionaries. He said that during my testimony he had felt the spirit and wanted to be baptised that day. Elder Brasil and I stood there in amazement. For those who have served a mission, you understand the amazement of somebody coming to you and saying that. It's the best thing of all time. After I write this we're gonna meet with him in the chapel and fill up the font for the baptism of matteus tonight which we're excited for (we got shot down for monday since it's family home evening night). People in brasil are actually really into family home evening...i think brasilian members understand missionary work a lot better than Americans...probably because everyone is a convert and understands the importance of sharing the gospel. It's pretty cool to watch. 

Yesterday was Zone conference..wow its really weird to say that in english..everything i type I want to type in portuguese.. But I thought that it would be a good idea to get there a little early since I hate taking a slow bus and having to run to get there on time. Elder brasil claimed he knew where the capella was...the church haha..we got off the onibus, walked for about an hour looking for the church. finally we found someone who knew where the church was..he gave us wrong directions and this continued for about another 30 min. FINALLY we found the church...drenched in sweat in downtown BH. we ran up to the doors and they were locked. I  looked at elder brasil and said 'check it..check the other one..' He checked it...locked too. I yelled FRRREEEEAAAAAKKKK!!!!..surely everyone in the city heard me..It was like arnold shwarznegger..i dont known how to spell that..on jingle all the way when he was trying to get home on time. We ended up taking another onibus and running for about another hour to finally find the right building in another neighborhood...neighborhoods in brasil are like another city. President watched us walk in to the chapel and sit on the side about an hour or so late. He never asked us what happened...i think out of complete pity.  It's really gross when you're sitting in a suit soaking wet.

Conference was amazing like it always is. President showed us that NOWHERE in the scriptures or in PME does it say anything about a promise of receiving a 'answer'..or reposta in portuguese. Thats because we dont recieve an 'answer'. We are promised that we will know the truth through a 'testimony' through the 'feelings of the holy ghost'. It also says in PME that its a 'process'. I realized that sometimes when i tell my investigators that they will recieve an 'answer' they begin waiting for something marvelous to  occur. They are waiting for angel moroni himself to appear in their living room and say, ok you can be baptised now. Thats not how it works. Thats why we have alma chp 32.

Anyway, Im excited for this week. This area is obviously a lot harder to baptise in..but you cant think that. Almost everyone here are filthy rich..i understand why the missionaries taught where they taught now (back at home) ..hahha. The beginning of this transfer was really hard..only one baptism, but this week we will have 2 or more. 

I think I may have seen my first dead person on the side of the highway on the way to conference the other day..that was odd. 

Mom, I received the contacts..Ill finish the ones that I have in right now and then try out the others, let you know how they are and then you can order more right? sweet. I still have more of the 2 week ones too.. Davis..come on, be a man..you gotta open your eye and throw them in..hahaha..

k im gonna send some pics now in another email. Love you all and hope all is well. Mom, the weather here is beautiful..there are no big spiders..

Love, Elder Jones

Monday, February 6, 2012

Letter to Mom (11/7/11)

Dear Mom,


Okay, P-day flies by - I just got done washing, cleaning, and organizing.  I can't write everyone although I might haha. But I just wanted to write this letter to you and thank you for everything that I am.  My faith and hard work come from both you and Dad, but without you I'd be lost just like if I didn't have Dad.  There is no greater blessing then to have you and Dad as my parents and teachers.  I relate your relationship to me as my relationship to Christ.  In John 13-15 Christ tells his disciples that they are his friends because he has given everything he has to them even a portion of His Spirit.  This is how I feel about you as well.  Every single time/day out here - especially when things get hard - (because this is not easy work) I think of you or Dad and see you face on the sidelines cheering me on when I fall.  Elder Kendrick gave me a copy of the poem "The Race" before we left the MTC because every time I read it I think of you and Dad as the father or Heavenly Father.  Help James as much as you can (It's hard sometimes and everyone needs somebody to look to).  The news about his call is unbelievable.  It brings so much joy to me.  Anyway, I just wanted to write this letter to say thank you for everything that you've done for me and are still doing.  It means a lot for me.  When I think of my family I don't feel homesick because I know they would have me work harder just like my Heavenly Father that I might "win the race" at the last day.  I think of one of the last lines in "A Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief" - "Of them I have not been ashamed," I know we will see Christ smiling at us one day just like in the "Testaments" when the father finally sees Christ.  Wow - what a blessing to have this knowledge!  Anyway, I better write James and get him pumped and stoked for Brasil!  Wow!  I can't believe that!  "Que Bensao" as president would say (what a blessing).  Love you so much,


Your son in the army,


Elder Jones

Christmas Letter to Dad

Dear Dad,


Surprise!! (like Stephen on Nacho Libre).  Feliz Natal all the way from Brasil.  I wanted to write you this short letter as one of my Christmas presents to you (I already wrote the other one that you opened earlier this morning).  Anyway, the mission is great.  Whenever times get hard here I always think of you and your determination to work hard and 'do hard things' like you said in your last letter.  It's really true that we have such a huge opportunity to do hard things here. It'll all be over so quickly and we'll look back and be happy that we weren't lazy.  If only every one of our investigators could understand this....


Time has been passing by quickly.  The harder you work, the faster time passes.  I'm grateful for a mission president who is like you too - he is awesome.  I think I"m now starting to understand some of the things you do.  When you do stuff cheap and tacky (you know, in order to save 3 cents or whatnot)...I'm doing the same thing.  It's pretty sweet.  It's kind of weird though because I feel like I'm becoming the same person as you sometimes haha.  I love to read the letters that you send every week and hear that the Lord continues to bless the family with temporal and spiritual blessings.  Sometimes it's hard to believe that we've been blessed so much - sometimes life just seems too perfect.


I'm extremely grateful, more than you'll ever know, for your unwavering example throughout the years.  Whenever I"m working out in the morning, doing push-ups or whatever, I think of what an awesome opportunity we have to 'do hard things.'  Then, when I'm out in the streets and people are doing everything they can to stop me or the work from progressing, I hum 'Let us all press on' in my head and think of the reward that we will receive if we have faith and put our shoulder to the wheel.


This work is amazing.  It is true that every step I take in this work and in my life is very much a part of you and your influence.  In a way, you will be able to serve multiple missions through me, Spencer, and Davis.  I'm so grateful to be your son.  Have an awesome year - I will continue to pray for your success and the family's success.  Thanks for everything.  I love you.


FELIZ NATAL!!!!


Elder Jones

Old December letters- 12/14/2011

Dear Mom and Dad,


Glad to hear everything is going well, I try to write handwritten letters as often as I can but unfortunately P-day is nothing like it used to be (like in the MTC) haha.


You are really free on your mission to manage your time. Obviously there are lots of rules, but outside of that it's really up to you to manage your time and work hard.  I can see how it's such great training for life because that's how life is (along with a million other worries) haha.  I always thought that the mish would be some what of a "break" but not when the commandment is to serve with all your heart, might, mind, and strength.  Anything less isn't enough (to stand blameless before God at the last day - Section 4 of the Doctrine and Covenants).


I really think if every missionary understood Section 4 we wouldn't have any problems.  I love to show that Section to recent converts who are 16 or 14 and hesitant to serve a mission because they're not familiar with it or they think they won't be any good.  It says clearly that all you need to "embark on this great work" is a desire (not a degree).  The Spirit is the teacher - not you, you just have to know how to humble yourself (which isn't as easy as it sounds sometimes).


One thing I've learned while being out here is how sensitive the Spirit is.  Understanding how to teach and live with the Spirit is the trick to life.  The Spirit will leave with one thought, one neglected commandment, etc...  President Eyring visited us one year ago and he told the missionaries to "get out of the way of the Spirit."  The mission is no "a break" when you live it right.  This is harder work then ever but its also the most rewarding.  If you're serving the right way you are worried about your investigators and the work from the moment you get up until you lay down to pass out. 


It's true what is always said about how time flies when you are working hard and are busy.  I was reading my brand new copy of the Novembro Liahona (we got December too) that we received yesterday at the office.  I'm excited to read every General Conference talk in Portuguese!  But, I was reading the first talk./opening remarks with President Monson. first thing that he talked about was how time flies when you ar busy - its true.  We're only here for so long so lets live life the best we know how.  I often read Alma 34:32 to people (especially after teaching the Plan of Salvation and before committing them to be baptized) where it says "this is the life for men to prepare to meet God, yea behold the day of this life is the day for men to perform their labors."


The past few weeks I've continued to study the special October edition of the Liahona (that we received in the MTC and were asked by President to read cover to cover) where I left off.  It's truly amazing.  I read part of a talk (Neil C. Anderson) this week where he mentioned 2 Nephi 2:6, he quoted "redemption cometh in and through the Holy Messiah; for he is full of grace and truth" and this is really what hit me hard when I read this the Spirit almost knocked me dead 2 Nehpi 9:41.  He is "the keeper of the gate and he employeth no servant there."  I've read that many times before - but wow - it meant something completely different to me this time.  I can't believe the love that our Savior has for us.  The more I come to know Him, the more I realize that His love for each of us is incomprehendable.  He stays there at the gate, He  stays for cada uno de nos (each one of us).


Everything is going just great here.  I continue to pray for each one of you - for you success at work to Mary being happy.  That's the way the Lord would have it.  For many to be just as happy as me - why would it be any different?  Don't forget to read the scriptures.  When we forget to read we're neglecting the Lord's power to perform miracles in our life that we all can't afford to live without.  I'm so grateful for the opportunity I have this Christmas to worry about other people and not me.  The Lord would have it no other way.  Elder Holland told us in the MTC that "you're going out to help people not suffer."  He also said with the utmost assurance, "we're gling to find ways to serve the children of God," "We're going to be the diciples of the Lord Jesus Christ together."  I'm grateful for your support and testimony.  I'm working hard - there's no other way to live this life!  Life is always good!


Love,


Elder Jones

Old December letters- 12/7/2011

Dear Mom & Dad,


How's everything going?  I'm doing great here in Brazil.  Everyone will be baptized her in Contegem by the time Elder Costa and I are done here!  haha.  One thing I've learned about the mission that is really important to have is a vision.  It's the same thing with anything in life - without a vision you're prone to laziness and procrastination.  I really liked what Dad said in one of his last letter about Paul and how he had such great success in missionary work because of how excited he was.  I think that goes for everything in life.  Another thing that I'm learning to deal with better is disappointment.  Two nights ago we found a family that I thought was elect.  They all had a date except for the mom who we know would after the next lesson.  They seemed excited to learn more and we were excited as well.  We fasted and had been praying for a family to teach.  When we returned the next night, I peeked through a hole in their door (fence thing) and saw the father sitting on the step.  After walking for 40 minutes we were ready to teach.  Wiping the sweat from our face, I knocked on the door.  The wife came out to the door to tell us that ther husband wasn't home and that he wasn't prepared and wanted nothing else to do with the Church.  It was hard for us to keep our mouths shut and not say that we already saw him and yell "hello" but everyone has the ability to exercise their agency.  We walked away knowing that we had done our part in testifying of the truth and that we had done our best.  That's all we can do in life sometimes - It's hard.


Experiences like these just make it all the sweeter when your investigators stay firm and grow and strong testimony.  Yesterday we were "batando portas" (hitting doors) and one woman let us in.  She told us the missionaries had already stopped by before and she had already gone to Church.  We began the first lesson but then she told us that her children had died and that is why she now lives by herself.  We quickly change the lesson plan to the Plan of Salvation.  At first she wasn't  buying it very well I don't  think but  then the Spirit kicked in.  I really think she felt the Spirit when we told her that she could see her family again.  I bore my testimony at the end about my family and how the Plan of Salvation means everything to me.  I told her that all I wanted was to live "there" (Pointing to the Reino Celestial on the puzzle that we always use  from Brother Holland) with my family.  I always bear my testimony also that we don't have much time here on this earth and this is why we need to keep focused and not lose focus of our "vision" which is Eternal Life with our families.  The Spirit was incredibly strong and I almost started balling, but I was  man and fought it - don't worry.  She said that she would be baptized.  She is really addicted to smoking so pray for her too! (Dona Maria)  We told her that we were there to help her and that she could do it with the Lord's help.


The work is really hard - but it's most rewarding than anything else.  Every month or so I read a talk that my teacher at the MTC gave us by Tad R. Callister entitled "Becoming a Consecrated Missionary."  It's kind of like my spiritual steroids.  I read that along with "The Race" - that poem that I already mentioned to you before.  I try and look at the big picture.  I try to look at how short the mission really is and put things into perspective.  It's really a short period of time when you think about it.  I would suggest that you read both of these together too.  They should be on the Internet some where.  Relate it to our life here.  It's really a spiritual experience.


Christmas is weird here.  People have little fake Christmas trees and decorative stuff in their houses but it doesn't feel like Christmas at all.  It's probably beacuse of the weather - haha.  Don't worry - I';m not depressed or anything - it's just funny I think.  I listen to Dad's Christmas music on my iPod almost every morning while I make and eat breakfast.  I love Christmas music - It reminds me of living in Maryland listening to Christmas music before going to open presents on Christmas morning.  Man! what great memories we have as a family!  I"m so grateful for the opportunity I have this year to serve the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!  There is no better way to try and rpay him than striving to become a consecrated missionary and bring other unto Him so that this perfect atonement may take effect in their lives as well.  I'm so grateful for the Spirit and joy that accompanies Elder Costa and I everyday here.  I love you both and thank you for all that you've done and still do. 


Feliz Natal,


Love Elder Jones

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Happy 2012!

Dear Family and Friends,
 
Well, I finally received everyone's letters and packages from the last month. It was pretty dang sweet. A sister in our district who will finish her mission next week stared at the pile of letters and 2 packages and said that she's never seen anyone receive so many letters in her entire mission hahahaa. ohh yeah. rakin it in, gettin it innn..lettin thesee cards fall all ovaaa maa skin..i got carrdds to bllowowowooww..hahhaa only some people will read that and truly understand that. I truly appreciate the love of my awesome family and friends as they share their testimonies with me and allow me to have a good time laughing hard at their hilarious letters and experiences. ..If only I had time to sit down and write about my experiences..hahaha, then again I'm not sure many people would believe all of them. For now, I'll just tell everyone that the church is true and that I'm trying my best to baptize people...
 
Anyway, life here in the mission gets easier. When I say easier it's probably not the easy your'e thinking about. NOTHING about the mission is easy. It's all hard work. But like dad so thoughtfully wrote in one of his past letters, "i like to do hard things". Life's not worth doing a bunch of easy things and then dying. You can't even look back and say, "dang, I did work". "thats like a dollar an hour!!" No, but seriously, life in the field is THE life. I love the mission. You learn different stuff everyday. In Brasil you see stuff every single day that you've never seen before that you've never even thought of...right when you thought you've already seen it all. But my mind is starting to stop freaking out every day. I'm more worried about how I can improve myself as a missionary and person, and how we can better our teaching, relying more on the spirit and Lord to progress our investigators and help us in our work. This way is much better than being worried constantly about them, being worried about having the spirit in our lessons.
 
Preach my gospel says that faith is the opposite than fear. In 'our pursuit for happiness', Elder Ballard says that we need to rely on the Lord to provide us with words and the spirit if we do our part. It's a promise if we are obedient in whatever stage in our lives.
 
The portuguese is still progressing. Mom, its wayyy easier to understand than speak haha. I can pretty much understand everything. Sometimes people will use a word that I don't know but I can understand still because of the sentence. I need to continue to expand my grammar and verb usage. It's really hard to go all week speaking Portuguese 24/7 and then type this in english by the way so if im spelling words wrong...ohh well. I'll go back to kindergarden when I return to learn how to speak English again...
 
We have a young man named Matteus progressing for baptism this sunday. We're doing all we can to help him  feel ready. We brought him to an activity at the church last week and to church too. It's always great when the 5th sunday lesson is "retention" when you've got a 17 yr old boy there you are trying to get interested...how pleasant. He's still "thinking" about baptism but we're gonna hit him hard with the spirit this week and then throw him in. Do work like we do here in zona pampula. District meeting was great this week. I always ask a lot of questions and we always learn a lot. I always try to use being around older missionaries to my advatage to seek advice.
 
Sounds like the phillies are really doing work with getting everyone they can. What happend with ryan howard!?? I never knew he was out. He's too young to be sitting on the sidelines all the time. 
 
It took me more than 2 hours to open all the cards that my district leader brought me yesterday. I read them at night and in the morning. I had 2 hours of a lot of laughing and felt the spirit often. I am amazed with how blessed I am to have such great family and friends. Thank you so much for your dilligence to write me and your prayers and thoughts too. I continue to do the same for you. Each card is appreciated greatly. I can feel your spirit in every card. I will try my best to work on responding for everyone during the next few pdays. Please understand that It takes more than the 3 weeks for me to receive your letters because they have to be picked up by my district leader sometimes a month later. Your testimonies strengthen and help me. I'm filled with joy as the ancient Book of Mormon missionaries were when they learned that their friends and family were still their "brethern in the word of God" ficar firme sempre. (stay firme forever).  Never lose track of the important things in life like President Uchtdorf has counseled us.
 
I continue to work hard to find those elect prepared to change their lives for the better. I continue to pray and think about all of you. I love you.
 
Love, Elder Jones